|Hanis, the author of this beauty. :)|
Take a deep breath.
Take some time to think to yourself before taking out a piece of paper.
And just let the words flow along with the tears or curses.
Don't hold back on one single emotion.
Don't wipe away one single tear.
Don't muffle out one single curse.
Take another deep breath as you fold the piece of paper and hide it somewhere.
That's the only thing I can teach you, my friend. That's what I've been doing for years in order to forgive someone and move on with my life. I just never think any disagreement is worth it. So I write the letter and shut my mouth up before folding and smiling.
For me, this letter writing process is a very effective way of forgiving someone. I often keep the letter and when I know there is no anger or hurt lingering, I'll burn or tear the letter apart with relish. With every damage done on that folded paper I'll get lighter and happier. Well, if not happier, I'll retrieve my peace of mind.
Perhaps now you can teach me how to put a limit on forgiving someone.
*This is an AWESOME post by Hanis. :D Isn't it so awesome?? I loovee it. thanks, Hanis! So, go and check out her blog and FOLLOW HER!!!! You'll love her posts, so check her blog out. -Jodie-Ann*